Understanding God’s Original Intent for Marriage

Hello Couples Pursuit family! Today, Vincent and I want to share our thoughts on marriage and divorce from a Biblical perspective. As relationship coaches, we understand the importance of reading the Bible to understand God’s original intent for marriage. We want to help couples embrace the sanctity of marriage and work through the issues that arise in their relationships.

Let no man put asunder – this phrase reminds us that marriage is a sacred bond, not to be taken lightly. We will discuss seven key points to keep in mind when facing challenges in your marriage. By understanding these principles, we can strengthen the connection between spouses and uphold the divine purpose of marriage.

1. The Permanence of Marriage

The Bible emphasizes the permanence of marriage, as it says in Genesis 1:27 and 2:24. God created male and female, intending for them to be unified in a lifelong commitment. When troubles arise in your marriage, remember that God meant for this union to last a lifetime. Work through the issues together, with the understanding that you and your spouse are joined together in a sacred covenant.

2. The Importance of Selflessness in Marriage

Marriage requires selflessness and understanding that this union is not just for you. It is a partnership between you and your spouse, designed to positively impact your lives and the world. Embrace the idea of giving and sharing, and remember that both you and your spouse are in this journey together.

3. The Need for Submission and Communication

Submission and effective communication are essential for a successful marriage. These qualities give a strong foundation and prevent external influences from tearing your relationship apart. Maintain open and honest communication with your spouse, and always be willing to listen to each other’s thoughts and feelings.

4. The Importance of Connection in Marriage

Communication is important, but it isn’t enough on its own. A strong connection between spouses is vital for a lasting and fulfilling marriage. When challenges arise, address them together and work on strengthening your bond.

5. The Original Intent of Divorce

Jesus taught that divorce was allowed only as a concession to people’s hardened hearts. It was not part of God’s original plan for marriage. In today’s world, many people see divorce as an easy way out of a troubled marriage. However, we should strive to work through our issues together and seek God’s guidance to bring healing and restoration to our relationships.

6. The Value of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is a powerful tool in maintaining a healthy marriage. When conflicts arise, remember the importance of not letting them come between you and your spouse. Forgive each other and work together to overcome the challenges you face. While forgiveness is essential, it doesn’t mean you must stay in a toxic or harmful relationship. Seek God’s guidance to determine your situation’s best course of action.

7. The Role of God in Marriage

Finally, we must recognize the central role of God in our marriages. When we prioritize our relationship with God, it positively affects our relationships with our spouses. Trust in God’s wisdom and guidance to navigate the challenges of marriage, and allow Him to strengthen your bond with your spouse.

Conclusion: Pursuing Your Spouse and Remembering God’s Role

Marriage is a journey; it takes time and effort to grow in love and understanding. By pursuing your spouse and keeping God at the center of your marriage, you can overcome the challenges that arise and build a strong, lasting bond. We hope that these insights will help you and your spouse grow closer and build a marriage that honors God’s original intent.

Join us every Wednesday as we discuss relationships and delve deeper into how the word of God can positively impact our marriages. Together, let’s explore tips and strategies for pursuing your spouse, understanding each other’s needs, and remembering the vital role of God in our marriages.

Remember, having a husband, and a wife is an act of worship to God. We pray that every couple, single, married, divorced, or widowed, will hear the message of maintaining a healthy marital relationship based on the word of God.

If you’re currently experiencing strife in your home, we encourage you to seek peace and understanding with one another. Let love guide your actions, repent if you have committed offenses against your spouse, and allow God’s blessings to enter your marriage.

In the end, always remember that marriage is a beautiful, lifelong journey meant to bring us closer to our spouses and God. By keeping these insights in mind and embracing the divine purpose of marriage, we can overcome obstacles and build lasting, fulfilling relationships with our spouses.

Stay encouraged, and remember that with God’s help, you can face and overcome any challenges that come your way in your marriage. We’re here to support and guide you on this journey, and we believe in the power of God to transform and strengthen your marriage. May His blessings be upon you and your spouse as you continue to grow in love and understanding.