You’ve probably heard of the 36 questions that can make total strangers fall for each other.

Well, we have modified this list down to 30 questions for couples to ask and answer together. Take a first-hand look at these intimacy-building inquiries.

Take turns asking these questions with your significant other or someone you are very interested in getting to know better and report back to us in the comments section in our Couples Pursuit Facebook Group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/540696806982411).

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world… who would you want to have as a dinner guest?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or the body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7. Name three things the two of you have in common.
8. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
9. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
10. Take four minutes and tell your life story in as much detail as possible.
11. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained one quality or ability what would it be?
12. Is there something you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
13. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
14. What do you value most in a friendship?
15. What is your most treasured memory?
16. What is one you wish you could forget?
17. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
18. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
19. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of the person you’re with. Share a total of five items each.
20. How do you feel about your relationship with your mom?
21. Make three true “we” statements for each.
    For instance, “We are both in this room feeling …”
22. Complete this sentence, “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ….”
23. Tell the person you’re with what you like about them; being very honest and saying things that you might not say to someone you just met.
24. If you were going to become a close friend of the person you’re with, share what would be an important disclaimer for him or her to know.
25. Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
26. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
27. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
28. What is something you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
29. Share a personal problem and ask for advice on how the person you’re with would handle it. 
30. Your house containing everything you own catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to make one final dash to save one item. What would it be? Why?

That’s it for the 30 questions. Could they help you rekindle the intimacy in your relationship? Only one way to find out, but I believe these questions can help start the fire 🙂